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How many therapists does it take to change a lightbulb? Just one, but it'll need nine more sessions!
Associate Fellow & Supervisor in RE-CBT.

Self-sabotage isn’t random. It’s a loop we oft Self-sabotage isn’t random.
It’s a loop we often don’t even see ourselves stuck in.

First comes the pressure to be perfect… then fear creeps in… then procrastination — and before you know it, you’re back where you started, only more drained.

Recognising the loop is the first step to breaking it.

Which stage do you find yourself caught in most often?

[ Self-Sabotage, Fear Of Failure, Inner Critic, Emotional Resilience, Personal Growth, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Mental Health Awareness, Healing Patterns ]
Sadness and depression can look similar on the sur Sadness and depression can look similar on the surface — but the difference is in their weight and duration.

Sadness usually has a clear cause and eases with time, rest, or support. Depression, on the other hand, lingers even without an obvious reason, numbing joy and draining energy day after day.

Knowing the difference matters. Because while sadness often heals naturally, depression may need therapy, lifestyle changes, or medical support.

✨ The key is this: neither is a sign of weakness. Both are signals — your mind telling you it needs care.

If what you’re feeling doesn’t fade, or it feels heavier than “just a bad day,” please don’t wait. Reach out, talk to a professional, and get the help you deserve.

Save this post to remind yourself — and share it with someone who might need the clarity today.

[ Mental Health, Sadness vs Depression, Depression Awareness, Emotional Well-Being, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Mental Health Counsellor, Depression Support, Anxiety And Depression ]
Many parents stay together out of love for their k Many parents stay together out of love for their kids — but sometimes that love means creating a peaceful home, even if it’s apart.

Children remember how the home felt more than whether both parents stayed married.
A safe, calm environment shapes their sense of trust and belonging.

If you’re facing this choice, ask yourself:
– Are we willing to repair or only endure?
– Does our home feel safe and warm for our kids?
– Which option truly offers them more peace?

Remember: what protects them most isn’t two parents under one roof, but the presence of love, stability, and respect.

💌 Save this for someone who needs to hear it today.

[ Mental Health, Family Conflict, Co-Parenting, Divorce vs Staying Together, Emotional Well-Being, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Children’s Mental Health, Relationship Healing ]
Healing often looks less like fireworks… and mor Healing often looks less like fireworks… and more like tiny steps you barely notice 🙂

You don’t have to feel 100% better to be moving forward.
These small, quiet shifts show you’re doing the inner work — even if no one else can see it.
Healing is not linear, and it’s okay if it still feels messy. What matters is you’re choosing yourself, over and over again.

Which of these signs feels most true for you right now?
Share it in the comments or save this post as a gentle reminder for your next hard day 🌸

[ Healing Journey, Emotional Resilience, Self-Compassion, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Therapists In Mumbai, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Stress Management, Daily Habits ]
Cheating breaks more than trust — it shakes the Cheating breaks more than trust — it shakes the very foundation of a relationship.

Whether it’s a husband, wife, or a partner in any relationship — straight or queer — the rules for rebuilding are the same.

If you were the one who cheated, rebuilding isn’t about grand gestures.
It’s about boundaries.
Clear, visible, non-negotiable boundaries that help your partner feel safe again.

It might mean keeping conversations light.
It might mean bringing your partner into the story when you talk.
It might mean choosing “we” over “I” — every single time.

Because after betrayal, the real question isn’t “what feels harmless to me?”
but “what feels safe to my partner?”

Trust is rebuilt in the small, daily choices that prove respect.
If you’re serious about healing, let your boundaries speak louder than your apologies.

[ Infidelity Recovery, Relationship Boundaries, Rebuilding Trust, Betrayal Trauma, Marriage Counselling, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Couples Therapy, Mind Healing Therapy, Emotional Healing ]
Meet Overwhelm — that uninvited guest who shows Meet Overwhelm — that uninvited guest who shows up every time your mind is juggling too many tabs.

It thrives when you keep saying “yes” even when your heart says “no,” when rest feels like a luxury, and when the weight of deadlines never seems to end.

But here’s the truth: Overwhelm loses its grip the moment you start setting boundaries, asking for help, and slowing down enough to breathe.

🌱 You don’t have to do it all. You just have to start by doing less.

❤️ If this feels like you today, save this post and give yourself permission to rest without guilt.

[ Mental Health, Overcoming Overwhelm, Stress Management, Emotional Well-Being, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Coping With Stress, Burnout Prevention, Daily Mental Health Tips ]
Most of us waste our energy fighting battles we we Most of us waste our energy fighting battles we were never meant to win — trying to control people, the past, or the future.
But the real power lies in choosing what is in our hands.

When you shift focus from what you can’t control to what you can, you protect your peace, strengthen your resilience, and stop handing over your happiness to outside forces.

✨ Next time you feel overwhelmed, pause and ask yourself:
“Am I pouring energy into something I can’t change… or into something I can grow?”

That choice makes all the difference.

[Mental Health], Emotional Resilience, Self-Awareness, Boundaries, Personal Growth, Mind Healing Therapy, Stress Management, Daily Habits, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Mental Health Counsellor]
You wait for that apology… that text… that one You wait for that apology… that text… that one moment where they admit they hurt you. But what if it never comes?

It’s not because you didn’t deserve it. It’s because they can’t — and that’s their limitation, not your worth.

Healing starts when you give yourself permission to move forward, even without their validation. Ask yourself, “What helps me feel a little more whole today?” Start there. Your healing isn’t on anyone else’s timeline, it’s yours 💙

Tag someone who’s learning to let go without needing closure.

[Emotional Healing, Self-Compassion, Toxic Relationships, Letting Go, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Inner Child Healing, Emotional Well-Being, Personal Growth]
Avocado’s here to remind us that trauma recovery Avocado’s here to remind us that trauma recovery isn’t about sharing everything with everyone.

✨ Some parts we show to the outside world.
✨ Some parts we keep for those we deeply trust.
✨ And the heaviest parts? They deserve a safe place, like therapy, where healing can truly happen.

Recovery isn’t about rushing or hiding. It’s about finding the right spaces for every part of your story. 🫶

If this spoke to you, maybe it’s time to ask: who feels safe enough to hold your pit?

[Trauma Recovery, Emotional Healing, Safe Spaces, Inner Child Work, Therapy Journey, Coping With Trauma, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Personal Growth]
Anger isn’t just an on/off switch — it builds Anger isn’t just an on/off switch — it builds in stages.
The Anger Meter helps you notice where you are, so you can step in before things spiral.

Here are simple coping strategies for each stage:

1. Calm 🌿
Stay grounded. Keep routines that bring balance: deep breaths, journaling, or short mindfulness breaks.

2. Mildly Irritated ✨
Acknowledge the trigger instead of brushing it off. Try a quick reset — stretch, drink water, or step outside for fresh air.

3. Frustrated 🔄
Pause before reacting. Write down your thoughts or call a trusted friend to process. Physical movement (like a walk or run) helps release built-up tension.

4. Angry 🔥
Your thinking feels clouded — so slow yourself down. Breathe deeply, count to ten, or use grounding techniques (like noticing 5 things you see). If possible, take space before continuing the conversation.

5. Explosive 💥
This is crisis mode. Remove yourself from the situation if you can. Focus on safety first, then practice calming tools: cold water on your hands/face, slow breathing, or guided relaxation. Reach out for support if anger feels unmanageable.

👉 Remember: Anger is a normal human emotion. The goal isn’t to erase it but to recognize it early and choose healthier ways to respond.

Save this post for the next time you need to check your anger meter.

[Anger Management, Anger Meter, Coping Strategies, Calm Techniques, Mindfulness Tips, Stress Relief, Emotional Awareness, Healthy Habits, Grounding Techniques, Mental Health, Self Regulation, Anger Control, Emotional Wellness, Anger Stages, Wellness Tips, Self Care, Stress Management, Emotional Control, Anger Support, Relaxation Techniques]
Texting feels easy — until it doesn’t 🥲
It’s great for memes, quick updates, or “What’s for dinner?” But when emotions are involved, every pause feels heavy, every short reply feels cold, and every full stop suddenly feels like the end of the world 😟❗

Without seeing their face or hearing their tone, your brain fills in the blanks… usually with the worst possible stories. You’re not replying to their words — you’re replying to your fears 😣🧠

Some conversations need a voice, a face, or just the comfort of being in the same room. Because connection—not texts—brings clarity 💬❤️

[Emotional Well-Being, Attachment Wounds, Relationship Intimacy, Toxic Communication, Self-Awareness, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Emotional Connection, Personal Growth]
Some people don’t fix you — they just show up. Some people don’t fix you — they just show up. They make space for all the messy, confusing, anxious parts of you without judgment. They remind you that you’re enough, even when you don’t feel like it.

Tag that person today and let them know how much they mean to you 💙

[Attachment Wounds, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Patterns, Emotional Healing, Secure Attachment, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Personal Growth, Healthy Relationships]
Microaggressions are small, everyday comments or a Microaggressions are small, everyday comments or actions that may seem harmless… but actually carry hurt, judgment, or exclusion.

It’s not always about someone shouting or being openly cruel. It’s in the little things — a dismissive comment, an assumption, a backhanded compliment — that make you feel unseen, invalidated, or “too much.”

These moments chip away at your confidence, your sense of belonging, and even your emotional safety. They’re hard to call out because they don’t always feel aggressive — but they still leave a mark.

The good news? Once you recognise them, you can set boundaries, protect your mental health, and give yourself the compassion you deserve.

[Attachment Wounds, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Patterns, Emotional Healing, Secure Attachment, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Personal Growth, Healthy Relationships]
It’s easy to turn to technology when we’re hur It’s easy to turn to technology when we’re hurting.
But AI isn’t a substitute for empathy — and it definitely isn’t a therapist.

Algorithms don’t understand your story, your pain, or your breaking point. They can’t hold space for you when you’re silent, scared, or alone.

If you’re struggling, reach out. Talk to a friend, a teacher, or a professional. Real connection can save a life.
Because you deserve support that sees you — not something that scans you.

Let’s stop outsourcing our pain. Let’s start showing up for one another.

[Mental Health Awareness, Suicide Prevention, Emotional Support, Empathy Matters, Teen Mental Health, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Healthy Coping, Real Connection]
Sometimes we think being a “good parent” means Sometimes we think being a “good parent” means making things easier for our kids. But here’s the twist — comfort isn’t always kindness.

When we avoid saying “no” because we feel guilty, we’re actually teaching them that life’s struggles are optional. That frustration is something to escape, not face. And over time, they learn to run from challenges instead of building the muscle to handle them.

Setting limits doesn’t make you a bad parent. It makes you one who’s brave enough to prepare them for the real world.

So the next time guilt creeps in — pause. Ask yourself: Am I shielding them from pain or protecting them for the long run?

[Parenting Challenges, Guilt Parenting, Emotional Healing, Resilience Building, Mind Healing Therapy, Healthy Boundaries, Personal Growth, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Positive Parenting]
Healing is a lot like tending to a garden 🌿 Som Healing is a lot like tending to a garden 🌿
Some days, you’ll see new blossoms. Other days, it might feel like nothing is growing at all. But underneath the surface, roots are strengthening in ways you can’t see.

That’s why it’s not about perfection—it’s about presence.
Show up for yourself, water the soil with kindness, breathe through the slow days… and repeat.

Over time, those small acts become transformation 🌸

[HealingJourney, MentalHealth, SelfGrowth, TraumaHealing, EmotionalWellness, SelfCompassion, TherapyAnalogy, PsychologistAdvice, MindfulnessPractice]
Ever feel like you’re stuck in the same argument Ever feel like you’re stuck in the same argument… over and over again?
It’s not just bad luck — it’s your attachment style playing out 🧩💭

How you loved and felt loved as a child shapes how you fight, how you connect, and how you distance yourself now. Anxious, avoidant, or disorganised patterns are just survival strategies from the past — but they don’t define your future ✨❤️

The good news? You can learn what secure love feels like and build relationships that are kinder, deeper, and more fulfilling. Healing is possible — one mindful choice at a time 🌱🤝

Drop a 💙 if you’re ready to rewrite your love story.

[Attachment Wounds, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Patterns, Emotional Healing, Secure Attachment, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Personal Growth, Healthy Relationships]
Being an emotionally safe parent doesn’t mean yo Being an emotionally safe parent doesn’t mean you never lose your cool or always get it right. It means your child knows:

✨ Their feelings won’t be dismissed
✨ Mistakes can be repaired
✨ Love isn’t withdrawn when things get hard

When children feel safe with you, they grow up knowing they are enough — not because they’re perfect, but because they’re loved.

So if you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing “enough” as a parent, remember: emotional safety is the most powerful gift you can give. 💛

Would you like me to also create a short, saveable tip line (like a mini-hook) to go at the very end of the caption for shareability?

[Parenting In Digital Age, Teen Mental Health, Digital Wellbeing, Online Safety, Screen Time Boundaries, Child Psychology, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Mind Healing Therapy, Emotional Connection]
Every past version of you had a role to play—the Every past version of you had a role to play—the one that doubted, the one that endured, the one that dreamed.
Together, they carried you here. ✈️
None of it was wasted. Every stop was part of the journey that shaped who you are today.

And where you’re headed next—you won’t be travelling alone. You carry all of them with you.

[InnerJourney, SelfGrowth, HealingPath, PersonalGrowth, SelfCompassion, LifeLessons, TherapyThoughts, EmotionalWellness, PsychologistAdvice]
Leaving home for college feels like stepping into Leaving home for college feels like stepping into freedom 🌍✨
But along with the excitement comes deadlines, laundry, and the quiet ache of doing things without a safety net right outside your door.

This chapter isn’t about becoming someone entirely new — it’s about becoming more of yourself. You’ll stumble, you’ll surprise yourself, and you’ll slowly learn how to manage your space, your time, your energy.

And here’s the truth: needing help doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human. 💡
Asking for support is not failure — it’s wisdom, and it’s how resilience is built.

So if you’re navigating this transition, remind yourself: you don’t have to rush. Growth happens one brave step at a time. 🪴

Tag someone who’s about to start this new journey 💛

[Teen Mental Health, College Transition, Emotional Well-Being, Resilience, Self-Compassion, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Identity Formation, Personal Growth, Mind Healing Therapy]
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