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TANU CHOKSI

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How many therapists does it take to change a lightbulb? Just one, but it'll need nine more sessions!
Associate Fellow & Supervisor in RE-CBT.

Healing is a lot like tending to a garden 🌿 Som Healing is a lot like tending to a garden 🌿
Some days, you’ll see new blossoms. Other days, it might feel like nothing is growing at all. But underneath the surface, roots are strengthening in ways you can’t see.

That’s why it’s not about perfection—it’s about presence.
Show up for yourself, water the soil with kindness, breathe through the slow days… and repeat.

Over time, those small acts become transformation 🌸

[HealingJourney, MentalHealth, SelfGrowth, TraumaHealing, EmotionalWellness, SelfCompassion, TherapyAnalogy, PsychologistAdvice, MindfulnessPractice]
Ever feel like you’re stuck in the same argument Ever feel like you’re stuck in the same argument… over and over again?
It’s not just bad luck — it’s your attachment style playing out 🧩💭

How you loved and felt loved as a child shapes how you fight, how you connect, and how you distance yourself now. Anxious, avoidant, or disorganised patterns are just survival strategies from the past — but they don’t define your future ✨❤️

The good news? You can learn what secure love feels like and build relationships that are kinder, deeper, and more fulfilling. Healing is possible — one mindful choice at a time 🌱🤝

Drop a 💙 if you’re ready to rewrite your love story.

[Attachment Wounds, Anxious Attachment, Avoidant Patterns, Emotional Healing, Secure Attachment, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Personal Growth, Healthy Relationships]
Being an emotionally safe parent doesn’t mean yo Being an emotionally safe parent doesn’t mean you never lose your cool or always get it right. It means your child knows:

✨ Their feelings won’t be dismissed
✨ Mistakes can be repaired
✨ Love isn’t withdrawn when things get hard

When children feel safe with you, they grow up knowing they are enough — not because they’re perfect, but because they’re loved.

So if you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing “enough” as a parent, remember: emotional safety is the most powerful gift you can give. 💛

Would you like me to also create a short, saveable tip line (like a mini-hook) to go at the very end of the caption for shareability?

[Parenting In Digital Age, Teen Mental Health, Digital Wellbeing, Online Safety, Screen Time Boundaries, Child Psychology, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Mind Healing Therapy, Emotional Connection]
Every past version of you had a role to play—the Every past version of you had a role to play—the one that doubted, the one that endured, the one that dreamed.
Together, they carried you here. ✈️
None of it was wasted. Every stop was part of the journey that shaped who you are today.

And where you’re headed next—you won’t be travelling alone. You carry all of them with you.

[InnerJourney, SelfGrowth, HealingPath, PersonalGrowth, SelfCompassion, LifeLessons, TherapyThoughts, EmotionalWellness, PsychologistAdvice]
Leaving home for college feels like stepping into Leaving home for college feels like stepping into freedom 🌍✨
But along with the excitement comes deadlines, laundry, and the quiet ache of doing things without a safety net right outside your door.

This chapter isn’t about becoming someone entirely new — it’s about becoming more of yourself. You’ll stumble, you’ll surprise yourself, and you’ll slowly learn how to manage your space, your time, your energy.

And here’s the truth: needing help doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human. 💡
Asking for support is not failure — it’s wisdom, and it’s how resilience is built.

So if you’re navigating this transition, remind yourself: you don’t have to rush. Growth happens one brave step at a time. 🪴

Tag someone who’s about to start this new journey 💛

[Teen Mental Health, College Transition, Emotional Well-Being, Resilience, Self-Compassion, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Identity Formation, Personal Growth, Mind Healing Therapy]
Therapy isn’t a straight line. Sometimes progres Therapy isn’t a straight line. Sometimes progress looks like tears, anger, wobbly boundaries, and feeling unlike your old self. That’s not failure—it’s recalibration. If this is you, you’re not breaking down; you’re breaking pattern.
Which slide landed for you today? Save this for the messy days.

[TherapyJourney, TraumaHealing, NervousSystem, Boundaries, EmotionalHealth, InnerWork, HealingIsMessy, MentalHealth, PsychologistAdvice, SaveForLater]
Conflict isn’t always a bad thing. What matters Conflict isn’t always a bad thing. What matters is how we handle it.
Unhealthy conflict feels like “me against you.”
Healthy conflict feels like “us against the problem.”

When you shift from defending your ego to protecting the relationship, conflict becomes an opportunity for growth, not a battle to win.

💡 The key: Pause, listen, and reflect. Remind yourself that the problem is the challenge you’re facing together—not your partner. Work through it as a team, and conflict becomes a bridge, not a wall.

So the next time conflict shows up, don’t focus on winning the argument because in reality, you might be losing the relationship.

[Self-Compassion, Emotional Well-Being, Positive Self Talk, Mirror Work, Mind Healing Therapy, Mental Health Counsellor, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Inner Child Healing, Personal Growth]
When children leave home, it’s not just their ne When children leave home, it’s not just their next chapter—it’s yours too.

So much of your identity has been “parent first.” Now, you get the rare opportunity to ask: Who am I outside of my child’s daily needs?

It can feel disorienting, but this is also where rediscovery begins. New roles. New connections. New purpose. You don’t lose yourself when your child leaves—you start meeting parts of yourself you hadn’t had time for.

[Parenting Transitions, Empty Nest, Emotional Resilience, Personal Growth, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Emotional Awareness, Life Transitions, Family Relationships]
Do your kids know how much they’re loved? 🫶💖 Let’s remind them with simple yet powerful affirmations that nurture their confidence and emotional well-being 💬✨ Words like “You are enough” or “Your voice matters” can make all the difference in their journey 💕

To my own kids, @tere.nainas @seherchoksi : I made this reel keeping you in mind. Love you to the moon and back ❤️

Let’s plant the seeds of love and resilience in their hearts 🌱💛

[ParentingTips, PositiveAffirmations, EmotionalWellBeing, ChildConfidence, ParentingWithLove, FamilyConnections, RaiseHappyKids, MindfulParenting, LoveAndSupport, BuildResilience]
You don’t avoid love ❤️ You avoid the kind o You don’t avoid love ❤️
You avoid the kind of “love” that feels like walking on eggshells 🥚🚶‍♀️
The kind that mistakes control for care 🚫🤝 and uses judgment where acceptance should be 🤍

You’ve learned the difference between someone holding you 🤲 and someone holding power over you 🛑

It’s not fear that keeps you away 😔
It’s the wisdom of self-protection 🛡️ — the quiet knowing that real love won’t make you question your worth, your safety, or your freedom ✨

[Love, Relationships, TraumaHealing, AttachmentStyles, MentalHealth, SelfAwareness, EmotionalSafety, HealingJourney, PsychologistAdvice, Boundaries]
We don’t choose automatic negative thoughts — We don’t choose automatic negative thoughts — but we can choose how to respond to them.

Your mind may throw quick, critical judgments at you, but that doesn’t make them facts. The more you start noticing these patterns, the less power they hold over your emotions.

Next time an ANT shows up, pause and ask yourself: Is this thought true, or is it just a habit of my mind? That simple question can shift everything 🌿

[Automatic Negative Thoughts, Anxiety Management, Mental Health, Cognitive Distortions, Emotional Resilience, Self-Awareness, Mind Healing Therapy, Personal Growth, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai]
✨ Between what happens to us and how we react… ✨ Between what happens to us and how we react… lies a pause.
That pause is powerful. It’s where self-awareness lives, where you get to choose if you’ll repeat old patterns or create new ones.

Most of us react automatically:
👉 Someone criticises you → you snap back.
👉 Partner forgets something important → you shut down.
👉 Stress builds up → you escape with distraction.

But in that tiny gap, you can choose differently.
You can breathe, pause, and respond in a way that protects your Emotional Well-Being and builds your Personal Growth.

For example: Instead of yelling back when criticised, pausing to ask yourself — “Is this about me, or about their own stress?”— can shift the entire outcome of that moment.

Growth isn’t about perfection, it’s about reclaiming that space.
And in that space lies your freedom 🌱

[Self-Compassion, Emotional Well-Being, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Stress Management, Daily Habits, Emotional Resilience, Inner Child Healing, Personal Growth]
If someone makes you feel like your love is too mu If someone makes you feel like your love is too much,
it’s usually because they don’t have the depth to hold it.

The right people will never call your emotions a burden.
They’ll embrace you as a whole — without asking you to shrink.

[Psychology, Relationships, EmotionalBoundaries, SelfWorth, MentalHealth, ToxicRelationships, EmotionalIntelligence, AttachmentStyles, SelfLove, TherapistThoughts]
Here are 7 subtle ways people show they find you a Here are 7 subtle ways people show they find you attractive 👇

✨ 1. Eye Contact – Their gaze lingers longer than what’s socially typical.

✨ 2. Mirroring – They unconsciously copy your movements, posture, or expressions.

✨ 3. Voice Shifts – Their tone softens, slows, or becomes more animated when speaking to you.

✨ 4. Proximity – They naturally lean closer or place themselves near you.

✨ 5. Touch – Small, casual touches on the arm, shoulder, or back appear more often.

✨ 6. Memory – They recall little details you’ve shared, even in passing.

✨ 7. Nervous Energy – Fidgeting, laughter, or playful teasing when you’re around.

Attraction isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it whispers through these micro-signals 🌿
Save this post if you’ve noticed these signs before.

[Self-Compassion, Emotional Well-Being, Positive Self Talk, Mirror Work, Mind Healing Therapy, Mental Health Counsellor, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Inner Child Healing, Personal Growth]
Ever been at a concert, mall, or crowded train and Ever been at a concert, mall, or crowded train and suddenly felt your chest tighten, heart race, and thoughts spiral? 😵‍💫 That’s anxiety showing up uninvited.

Here’s your 5-4-3-2-1 grounding toolkit to anchor yourself back:
🔹 5 things you can see (the exit sign, someone’s jacket, a poster…)
🔹 4 things you can touch (your bag, your phone, the fabric of your clothes…)
🔹 3 things you can hear (people chatting, footsteps, background music…)
🔹 2 things you can smell (perfume, food nearby…)
🔹 1 thing you can taste (a sip of water, mint gum…)

Pair this with slow belly breathing — in through your nose, out through your mouth — and notice how your body begins to settle 🌿

👉 Save this for next time you’re feeling overstimulated in a crowd. It won’t make the noise disappear, but it will help you feel more in control.

[Anxiety Management, Emotional Well-Being, Grounding Techniques, Mind Healing Therapy, Stress Reduction, Psychologist In India, Therapists In Mumbai, Nervous System Regul
Think you know Sex Ed? Let’s test your brain 👀

Because intimacy is more than just physical—it’s shaped by your self-esteem, stress levels, communication, and emotional safety.

💭 How many did you get right?
💬 Which one surprised you the most?

👉 Save this post & share it with your partner—healthy conversations start here.

[Sex Education, Emotional Well-Being, Healthy Relationships, Intimacy And Psychology, Sexual Self-Esteem, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Mind Healing Therapy, Consent Education, Personal Growth]
You cheer for your friends. You comfort your child You cheer for your friends.
You comfort your child.
You tell your pet they’re the cutest thing alive.
But when was the last time you spoke kindly to yourself?

You deserve that same gentleness.
That same reassurance.
That same love.

[Self-Compassion, Emotional Well-Being, Positive Self Talk, Mirror Work, Mind Healing Therapy, Mental Health Counsellor, Therapists In Mumbai, Psychologist In India, Inner Child Healing, Personal Growth]
“Just one drink.” To chill. To fit in. To take “Just one drink.”
To chill. To fit in. To take the edge off.

But what if that one drink is actually draining your vibe?

Grey area drinking sneaks in quietly —
👉 Mood swings
👉 Crappy sleep
👉 Less energy
👉 More anxiety

It’s not about quitting. It’s about asking:
Is this actually helping me?

If this feels familiar, it’s time to check in with yourself.

Been there? Tell me below 👇🏽

[Grey Area Drinking, Coping Mechanisms, Mental Health, Alcohol and Anxiety, Substance Use Psychology, Daily Habits, Emotional Regulation, Psychologist In India, Mind Healing Therapy, Therapists In Mumbai]
Mental health isn’t always mood boards and mantr Mental health isn’t always mood boards and mantras.
Sometimes it’s crying in the car. Sometimes it’s choosing to rest when your brain screams productivity.
It’s rewriting patterns, sitting with triggers, learning boundaries.
You don’t have to look healed to be healing.

What’s one unglamorous thing that’s actually helped your mental health?

[Mental Health, Emotional Resilience, Self-Awareness, Mind Healing Therapy, Psychologist In India, Daily Habits, Vulnerability, Personal Growth, Therapy Journey, Stress Management]
Overthinking feels productive, but it’s just men Overthinking feels productive, but it’s just mental quicksand. The more you analyze, the deeper you sink. Clarity doesn’t come from endless thinking—it comes from doing. Take one step, any step, and watch the fog clear ✨

[Overthinking, Decision-Making, Mental Clarity, Anxiety Management, Mindfulness, Cognitive Overload, Emotional Resilience, Self-Awareness, Personal Growth, Stress Reduction]
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